Do you Click?

Is chemistry real, or learned?  Do you just "click" with people, or do you logically find someone that you have something in common with and then that common denominator serves as a basis for a friendship / relationship and then it develops?  Is it all or nothing?  Is it instantaneous?  And how does it come unraveled if it was once so strong?

I click with people - or I don't - but I can definitely fake a click...  I've had this book I've been meaning to read for at least a year (take a number, I've been meaning to read so many books for a year...).  And I need to dive deep in to WHY people click.  Because you just know if you do!!  We ALL know that that feels like!  And these people that you click with may or may not have something in common with you.  Or on the flip side, maybe someone that does have a few common denominators with you just doesn't jive with you as well...  no clicking.

So, can you work to click with someone and then over time you will...  nothing like that initial click though, right?  It's just THERE.  On like Donkey Kong.  Because then at that point you're fake clicking, right?  Let's face it, it then crosses over in to "work" and the click is just not meant to be.

Oh and by the way -

I believe that KWIM should universally be accepted.  I learned this from my mommy board years ago, and well...  it's as common as ASAP...  KNOW WHAT I MEAN?  KWIM?  So, I use it often!